How to build a relationship?

It ain't easy so don't take it for granted. First, you must be growing personally. This means taking care of your physical health; walking, jogging, yoga, swimming, biking, dancing at LEAST four times a week for forty minutes. Second is your mental health; READ one book each month, subscribe to a magazine that promotes positive thinking, take a class and go to lectures or poetry readings frequently. Third is your spiritual health; meditate, slow down and sit alone in a quiet place four times a week, pray, journal and consider that you are connected with the entire world. Once you have TAKEN CARE OF YOURSELF you will be able to care for another without greed, selfishness or lust. Loving is passionate but it comes from a solid foundation that is able to give with good health. TJS